Being a successful solopreneur is an extremely challenging goal.

Being a great parent is likewise extremely challenging.

So can you be both? With careful thought and planning, yes you can!! Many have accomplished this.

Both of these ambitions will take up lots of time and thought. They both leave you with very little energy at the end of the day. And they both linger psychologically: meaning that it’s very hard to “switch off” in either case.

As you can imagine then, finding a way to do both these things at the same time is quite a challenge. So what are some secrets for doing this?

Let’s take a look.

Perhaps you are too focused on work, which leaves you stressed when spending time with your family. Your webinar didn’t go well and you realize that you made mistakes in your presentation.

Or maybe you are thinking about your new product launch.

Or your business stress has you in a bad mood.

Maybe the cash flow isn’t what you want and  you are struggling to pay your bills.

Then perhaps you’re too far the other way. Maybe you’re a great parent, but you let that interfere with your work-life. Maybe you can’t focus at work and you’re constantly taking holiday to spend time with your family.

Maybe you’re distracted by hearing the kids play downstairs and you just can’t focus on work.

These are definitely issues many stay-at-home Moms face when they start a business.

So, what do you do?

There’s no single answer to this. There are so many variables in this situation that one answer wouldn’t be relevant for everyone.

I would say to pray and ask God for guidance. He will help you to see how to maneuver this. How to plan and how to implement your plan.

But here’s a truth that is fairly universal: If you try to do both things simultaneously then you will do neither well.

This is why you need to be very strict and disciplined about what you consider to be “work time” and what you consider to be “home time.”

Some successful solopreneurs “dress” for work – just as if they were going to an office. No pajama days for them. This simple trick can help them and their families realize that office hours are important.

Set up a schedule for work, and stick to it. Focus on your work for these set periods of time, and afterwards, switch your attention to your family. Then focus on them!

You might feel as though that defeats many of the benefits of being self-employed in the first place. But there are ways to get the benefits AND still keep things separate.

For one: as long as you are able to focus hard and work fast, there is nothing to stop you from taking additional breaks throughout the day. As long as they are clearly defined and you go back to work afterward!

Sometimes you can try to focus on completing a certain amount of work, rather than working for a given amount of time. This incentivizes you to work quickly, and it means you often can take more time to be with your family!

One of the great benefits of being a solopreneur and a parent is that you are setting a good example. Your children see that you are working hard – and they want to emulate that behavior.

They also see that you are setting goals and accomplishing them. Children thrive when they see the success of their parents. They will even benefit from seeing you make mistakes and correct your course along the way.

Such examples are “caught” and you will see your children being more productive. They too will want to be visionaries and set goals. They too will want to put in the work necessary to achieve those goals.

So pray, plan, implement, and be a great role model for your children. They will gain much from having such a parent!

And you will flourish in your pursuits!

 

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